Jolted out of my own reality

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 This morning during an argument I noticed the futility of trying to be right. Why does it matter? Does it make the sun shine brighter or the rain come during drought? No. It just prolongs an frustrating moment. 



Blending with life during trying times is the challenge. Can I pick up my figurative sword, cut through my own BS and stay the course? Yes, for today I can. I will come back to center and be a pleasant person. 

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